Ken Larsen's web site - Personal Values
Here's a list of what I value in a prospective girlfriend:
Intelligence
values science
Exercise
Physical attraction
Humor
Pragmatism
Gregarious
Prudence
Shared interests
Shared political views
Teamwork
Cleanliness
Conservation
Frugality
Self-reliance
Here are red flags/deal breakers (ranked in order):
Smoking
Religion/belief in "God"/attending church/belief in prayer [my views on religion]
Lack of a regular exercise program
Intransigence [e.g. someone who tenaciously defends one side of an issue and won't listen to alternatives]
Racism, homophobia, xenophobia
Supporter of Donald Trump
Someone who gets their news exclusively from Fox News and believes that other news media are fake
Prodigal (opposite of frugality)
Alcohol consumption (alcohol is a carcinogen)
Gluttony
Clutter
Belief in astrology
Those in red are super-deal breakers for me.